Wedding of the King-to-be

One more day, all eyes will focus on the wedding of the King-to-be.
Or I should say, for days, all eyes had been focusing on the wedding of the King-to-be.
Someone may feel so odd about the extensive media coverage of the wedding, even some media was also commenting on the crazy coverage. No wonder, as even CTV was spending almost one-third of their 30-minutes national news covering the wedding.

You may ask why? Let me try...

Canadians are tired of hearing the "debate" regarding another minority government election. Well, yes, we are all too tired of the lies of all these politicians.

And... as Vancouver is the only playoff team in Canada for the Stanley Cup, and forget about the NBA... No hockey, no basketball, not yet football.... so, you can imagine how boring Canadians will be. Well, we are fortunately that Blue Jays are still in the playoff hunt.

What about the other parts of the world? Days after days, we hear about wars everywhere... or radiation-affected Japanese food and cars.

Chinese channels... HK news are all about sickness of those high ranking officers, how bad people saying the government is treating them....

Hey... we just need something positive, something for ourselves to cheer about...

And thank you, Prince William and Miss Catherine Middleton, your wedding just come at the right time... something that can give us a smile on our face... :P

「議員不要政治考慮」...?

"負責提交臨時撥款決議案的陳家強會後「黑面」指摘說：「立法會通過臨時撥款，是立法會應該做和有責任做的事情。我呼籲個別議員不要因為政治的考慮罔顧市民利益。」"

簡直是一派胡言,究竟香港D高官明唔明白佢自己做緊甚麼?D議員係市民用公民權投票要佢地用政治的考慮去帶領這個社會，你竟然公開叫佢地"不要因為政治的考慮"而作出決定?你知唔知到底政治是甚麼...!!

根據百度百科...政治的詞源 (http://baike.baidu.com/view/5073.htm)

政治的詞源

不少西方語言中的「政治」一詞(法語politique、德語Politik、英語politics),都來自希臘語πολις,這個詞可以考證出的最早文字記載是在《荷馬史詩》中,最初的含義是城堡或衛城。古希臘的雅典人將修建在山頂的衛城稱為“阿克羅波里”,簡稱為“波里”,城邦制形成後,“波里”就成為了具有政治意義的城邦的代名詞,後同土地、人民及其政治生活結合在一起而被賦予“邦”或“國”的意義。後又衍生出政治、政治制度、政治家等詞。

因此,“政治”一詞一開始就是指城邦中的城邦公民參與統治、管理、參與、鬥爭等各種公共生活行為的總和。 　　

中國先秦諸子也使用過“政治”一詞,。《尚書•畢命》有“道洽政治,澤潤生民”;《周禮•地官•遂人》有“掌其政治禁令”。但在更多的情況下是將“政”與“治”分開使用。“政”主要指國家的權力、制度、秩序和法令;“治”則主要指管理人民和教化人民,也指實現安定的狀態等。 　　

在中國古代,“政”一般表示: 朝代的制度和秩序,例如“大亂宋國之政” 一種統治和施政的手段,如“禮樂刑政,其極一也” 符合禮儀的道德和修養,如“政者正也,子帥以政,孰敢不正” 朝廷中君主和大臣們的政務活動,如“其在政府,與韓琦同心輔政” “治”在中國古代則一般表示 安定祥和的社會狀態,如“天下交相愛則治” 統治、治國等治理活動,例如“修身、齊家、治國、平天下” 中國古代的這些“政治”的含義,與西方和古希臘的“政治”含義完全不同,很大程度上政治只是一種君主和大臣們維護統治、治理國家的活動。 　　

中文裡現代的“政治”一詞,來自于日本人翻譯西方語言時用漢字創造的相同的“政治”一詞。當英文的Politics從日本傳入中國時,人們在漢語中找不到與之相對應的詞。孫中山認為應該使用“政治”來對譯,認為“政就是眾人之事,治就是管理,管理眾人之事,就是政治。”他的這一說法在當時的中國非常具有影響力。

"政就是眾人之事,治就是管理,管理眾人之事,就是政治。"議員不以因為政治的考慮為出發點,可以用甚麼?

另外，"立法會通過臨時撥款，是立法會應該做和有責任做的事情。"通過"者,有被認同的需要，亦等於有不被認同的可能。若是不能被人所接納，"不通過"也"是立法會應該做和有責任做的事情"。

我並非在此認同或是不認同今次的行為，只是慨嘆香港比D連何謂"政治"都不通的"高官"話事,唉...!

Men and Women

One day, there was a catastrophic event that caused all living creatures on Earth to die. To sort things out, everyone went to heaven.

God said, "I want the men to form two lines. One line for the men who ruled their women on Earth and one for the men who were ruled by their women."

The line of men who were ruled by their women was 1,000 miles long, and in the line of men who ruled their women, there was only one man.

God said, "You men should be ashamed of yourselves. I created you in my image and you were all whipped by your mates. Only one of my sons made me proud. Tell them, my son, how did you manage to be the only one in this line?"

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"I don't know," the man replied. "My wife told me to stand here."



"Joke of the week - www.TBS.com"

好人_好報?

為甚麼「寧人負我、莫我負人」的結局是被迫「自動請辭」?

是殘酷的現實... 但是... 公平嗎?

"留下的疤"...?

今日聽pp959內7/28既podcast, 聽到同工余子麟quote以前JJ959一個主持人的一個blog post,提及我地身上既疤痕...

留下的疤

天父爸爸,

有一天, 我到超市買了一支去疤的藥膏. 逛了很久也找不到想買的藥膏, 便跑去問了一問櫃檯的服務員.
他想了一想,然後說「你去化妝品部門」我聽了他的回答後, 我說「我不是要蓋疤, 我希望疤真的可以去掉」
他想了一想, 然後又說「那你去藥房那邊試試看..」

我去到藥房問了一下藥劑師, 她介紹了一支可以「六個禮拜完全去疤」的藥膏
可是她拿起藥膏後, 跟我說「這種藥膏應該不可能完全去疤...我想大概去80%左右..」
我把褲子拉起,讓他看看我之前跌傷的膝蓋. 他說「那你可以買去試試看, 不過那麼大的傷口, 之後的疤應該很久才會消失」

雖然最近都在省錢, 不過為了膝蓋的疤趕快消失, 我決定買下那一支藥膏.
自從之前在加油站被自己的腳絆倒而跌倒受傷後, 我每天都會看著自己的膝蓋, 嘆著氣說自己笨,還不斷的問自己「怎麼那麼大一個人也會這樣的跌倒?我是白癡啊!」
痛是很痛, 尤其自己又是那一種粗心的人, 所以經常不小心磨到傷口, 搞到傷口久久也不好起來..

看到傷口, 我覺得無奈極了.
因為它提醒了我自己的笨, 自己的粗心大意, 還時常提醒著受傷後那幾天洗澡時的痛苦, 走路時也是一柺一柺的..
傷口本來就是會自然的好起來. 人類的構造本來就是可以讓受過的傷口自己的復原, 不過卻因為自己的任性和不自律而讓傷口越來越深. 有時侯還因為手太閒太無聊而去抓本來已經好得七七八八的傷口. 就這樣, 傷口又再流血, 再痛...這樣, 疤就越來越深了...

過了一段時間, 我看著傷口, 開始害怕之後疤會永遠都留在我的膝蓋上, 開始後悔, 開始自責
傷口已經不痛了, 血也沒有再流了. 其實每一次自己把傷口抓到流血, 也都沒有之前一次那麼痛了..而因為這樣, 我才知道我正在痊癒當中..

雖然傷口不痛了, 但我卻很介意留下來的疤痕.
雖然已經不會再影響著我的日常生活, 當沒有仔細留意的時候, 我甚至不會察覺它的存在
但疤卻仍然留著, 每逢當我注意到的時候, 也會提醒了我自己曾經跌倒的一次經歷..又或者在夏天穿裙子的時候, 照著鏡子時總是會覺得很不對勁, 那個疤很礙眼.

我希望皮膚可以跟沒有跌倒過一樣
但我知道並不可能..
那我就希望有一天, 自己看到的時候不要再覺得膝蓋很醜...
有著疤的膝蓋也有權利便成讓人驕傲的膝蓋...

我覺得 我慢慢也不太在意了
雖然還是不好看, 看到的時候還是有一點觸景傷情...不過, 已經不太記得發生甚麼事了..
現在我甚至覺得買那一支藥膏很浪費金錢

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反省返自己的生活裡，其實都有好多的疤痕。不單是痕，甚至我有時懷疑我的傷口究竟埋左口未...有時候，我知道我好想去疤，點知其實只係用緊化妝品蓋疤，仲要係裡面已經含濃，自欺欺人地去以為自己已經無事... 點知...

我總以為我並不太在意，但係當其他人係你條疤痕上面灑鹽時，果種"O拿"法，先知道其實自己個傷口原來跟本從未有埋過口...唉...

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親愛的天父啊，求求你，協助我，醫我傷，去我疤，讓我能好好的為你去作鹽作光，不再讓你的名蒙羞...

Funeral - Chinese

Little imperfections make Perfect couples...
Beautifully Imperfect...

L.O.V.E.

昨天<同事三分親>問了一條問題：究竟甚麼是愛情？

陸哲話係犧牲，珠珠表妹覺得係等待，明亮的答案最現實 ─ 「愛情是現在，活在當下，總之要珍惜眼前人。」

可是最痛苦的莫過於有些人好似李公子一樣，覺得愛情是其中一方需要妥協、要讓步，在於比較誰愛另一方多一點，認為喜歡對方比較多的一個，多數是處於下風。

其實我就覺得Vincent的一個問題很好：誰佔上風有甚麼關係？喜歡一個人，不是要令那個人開心，自己就開心了嗎？
唉!好坦白講，「所愛的人開心你就開心」這句話講就易，試問世上又有幾多人可以做到無怨無求呀？

我自己就覺得如果一個人可以愛對方多於對方愛你，其實都係一件好事。其實可以去到一個不求回報的愛情，實在有太多東西可以在當中的過程中學習。

得與失其實是很難衡量的。

"O you of little faith, why did you doubt?"

"O you of little faith, why did you doubt?"
This verse best describe my most needed learning during the trip.

Just like Saturday. Thirty minutes before my first of nine message in eight days (yes, add Sunday school before my Sunday Service message), Satan definitely want to remind me that he will not let any opportunity to beat me to slip away.

It was when my laptop was being "flood" by an accident during the fellowship dinner. It was nobody fault. However, we found out that my laptop was not able to turn on after that. To be honest, at that moment, I am really desperate. Someone whispered to me, do you need a prayer? I don't know what to answer. The only thing I am talking to God... What? No...!!!

However, God really showing to the fellowship, He prepares. One of the brothers eventually bring a small screwdriver with him, and the most important, he knows how to fix a laptop. Within three hours, my laptop was being restored, backup and ready to go.

When I saw him fixing it, the only wordings in my mind, was the sermon I am going to preach Sunday morning. 'When Peter saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, "Lord, save me." Jesus immediately reached out his hand and took hold of him, saying to him, "O you of little faith, why did you doubt?" '

I ask myself, Kelvin, why are you having so little faith?
I feel shame of myself, I should have know that even though the laptop cannot be recovered, my messages is still on. Why bother on the little computer?
Sorry God, I fell into Satan's trap again, I almost failed.
Thankyou for bailed me out, as the message went well Saturday night(at least this is what I believe).

Faith is all I am asking for...

Its all about the ironic feeling in your heart, but after all, its all about your faith to believe.

Its ironic that I know God is giving me the best, but I don't think I am having the best now. I need faith to believe the God has already given me the best, its just I have yet to understand it.

Its ironic as I want to understand so many "Why?"s in my mind, but I also understand that there are so may "Why?"s are not able to understand. I need faith to believe that God has His reason to allow all those "Why?"s to happen.

Its ironic that I want to see my future, but on the other hand, everyone know that you will never know your future except I am convinced that I am going to Heaven after death. I need faith to believe that God is taking good care of my future.

Its ironic that I know that I should not have to worry, but I always worry about this and that. I need faith to believe that God is in control and I really have nothing to worry.

Its ironic that I know that I should follow the Will of God, however, I always feel pain occurs when doing that. I need faith to believe that following His will is the most enjoyable one, and no pain really no gain.

Its ironic that you know that Satan is going to attack you so that you don't have faith to serve Him, but I always fall into Satan's temptations. I need a lot of faith to believe that I can fight as long as I am walking with God, even though sometime I might fall.

Life is full of irony. But FAITH TO BELIEVE will always overruled these ironies.

God, please, let me have more FAITH so that I can BELIEVE.

Goal 2009

Monday night, little wordings, trigger my emotions. Although nothing harmfully done, I know I hurt someone in someway. This deeply ensure myself that my IQ is ok normal, but my EQ is really not. Self-control, something I really have to learn.

God told me two weeks ago, and remind me again today.

During the sunday school two weeks ago, God gave me my theme scriptures for the year.

For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
(2Pe 1:5-8)
正因這緣故，你們要分外的殷勤；有了信心，又要加上德行；有了德行，又要加上知識；有了知識，又要加上節制；有了節制，又要加上忍耐；有了忍耐，又要加上虔敬；有了虔敬，又要加上愛弟兄的心；有了愛弟兄的心，又要加上愛眾人的心；你們若充充足足的有這幾樣，就必使你們在認識我們的主耶穌基督上不至於閒懶不結果子了。
(彼得後書 1:5-8)

I do have faith, and I believe myself are trying my best for goodness. Knowledge, I trust myself will not be lower than a certain standard. However, when reaching self-control... sigh.

Not matter how much knowledge, if I do not have self-control, knowledge really means nothing. Not to mention the steadfastness and things coming after that.

KNOWLEDGE WITH SELF-CONTROL... MY GOAL FOR 2009.

If... MY LOVE IS not YOU...

假如 我的愛不是你 就讓我的船繼續飄泊 在無崖的憂鬱中
從此 孤獨在子午線遊走 失落的靈魂 不再懂得愛
我會把苦戀的痛畫左額角 憂鬱刻在眉
我會把我的愛 跟你的身體一起焚燒
用一個紫色的小盒子
承載著 我們我灰燼
承載著 我們無法完全的愛......




節錄自<伴在我身旁>中的一段

Love really matters

今日有機會睇番上個星期的"同事三分親"，實在很能理解"愛情"這個名詞。

裘俊為了Diana,竟然去放棄一個賢良淑德、願意為佢去煮飯洗衫的富家表妹。真係唔明...! 他寧願每天的捱駡捱打，也願意甘心在心愛的人旁邊，不離不棄，實在佩服。

你可能會用"蠢"、"傻"甚至"白痴"去形容狗俊，又或許你會話這個世界怎會有這些男人連自己尊嚴都唔要，去為一個連自己都唔知點解會等的"她"而放棄整個森林。

男人，如果你係咁想，就證明你還未真正理解愛的定義。愛是需要付出，不求代價；就算要犧牲自我也甘心才是真正的愛。耶穌為男人作了一個好的見證，不計算世人的回應，也不理會我們是否願意接納祂的犧牲，卻已把自己的生命獻上在十字架之上。當然，我地唔係神，唔可以好似耶穌愛世人，只係要求你愛你身邊的一個，點解都唔得?(其實如果話愛一個都咁難，我就真係唔明點解有D人仲可以一腳踏兩船，以為自己係情聖，唉...!)

女人，如果你有以上的想法，那就證明你對愛及男人的信心唔夠。因為我可以百分百肯定這個世界有這些男人，仲要唔只耶穌一個，只不個係你唔敢去相信這個世界會有這些男人，就是在妳旁邊，你都會當無。如果你覺得你已經找到一個，千其唔好好似Diana咁，利用男人對你的愛，不斷的去挑戰這個男人的底線?正所謂物極必反，去得太盡，過咗底線，因為連個男人也未必知道自己的底線係邊度；到時佢頂唔順，並不代表你的勝利，也不代表你對男人的睇法正確，反之只是傷害了一個願意為你犧牲的男人的弱小心靈。

狗俊...唔係...應該係裘俊至真，雖然我唔知你之後的選擇，但係我明白你會認同這段"等"是值得的。

努力呀，我以你為傲。

Mr. Bean? Nope... Its Mr. Bian

Yesterday, I was so fortunate that I had a chance to lunch with our beloved brother, Mr. Bian Yan Bo (無名的傳道者 - 邊雲波老師). During the whole conversation, I found out that he had more passion with God than I have expected. The grace of God flowing through every bit of his own experience and his teaching.

Throughout Wednesday TCEMF seminar and yesterday lunch, there is one thing he keep reminding me. Experience God cannot be fully fulfill unless we learn how to go through difficulties with God.

Yes, we will thank God when everything in life pass through with no hassle. However, its always during pain and trouble that we truly learn about God and will understand God more. As we always said, NO PAIN, NO GAIN. That's always true.

We are so luxury here in North America, that we do not really have much pressure in believing God. Well, actually we did. We have to fight through all the distractions from the world ( we actually should not use the term secular world, as the whole world suppose to be holy and spiritual under the control of God, right???).

Sleep 30 more minutes as we only drive 15 minutes to church. Have the devotion later at night, because CSI only end at 11 with my favorite CTV news follows till midnite. Reading the Bible become more electronic, so as my spiritual journal (they are now all typed during the distraction of email arrival warnings).

With all these comfort, are we willing to give up our luxury and back to original - God? Do I really want to sacrifice my luxury and to experience God throughout tough times? Its really a good question to myself.

Well, hopefully you have a better spiritual life than I do, and have a better relationship with God...!!

Enjoy your life...!

YOU don't understand ME...

你不懂我的心 鍾嘉欣
(國語)

作曲：Alex Lung 填詞：張美賢
編曲：杜自持 監製：杜自持

你說你要飛翔的自由　只不過是一個藉口　我也會接受　　
曾經牽着你的手　還有甚麼要求　我只要退在你背後
總有一天我會成為你最好的朋友　無理取鬧也會忍受　現在同眼淚倒流

我不懂你的心　還要守到最後
就算愛情厭舊　從指縫溜走　擦破我雙手
你不懂我的心　有時候真的好想不再回頭
放開所有　開始我一直沒辦法了　全也沒辦法走

曾經牽着你的手　還要甚麼要求
我只要退在你背後　總有一天我會成為你最好的朋友
無理取鬧也會忍受　現在同樣眼淚倒流

我不懂你的心　還要守到最後
就算愛情厭舊　從指縫溜走　擦破我雙手
你不懂我的心　有時候真的好想不再回頭
放開所有　可惜我一直沒辦法了　全也沒辦法走

想找一個理由　好讓我轉身就走
為甚麼這個時候才發現我與你也難受

我不懂你的心　還要守到最後
就算擁抱變舊　溫度已不夠　我一樣溫柔
你不懂我的心　嘗試過一千遍寫下很多理由
決定放手　可惜我一直沒辦法留　卻也沒辦法走

I don't understand YOU

我不懂你 鍾嘉欣

作曲：Alex Lung 填詞：王仲傑
編曲：杜自持 監製：杜自持

事到如今　我學識接受　是你要自我與自由　這是你所有

＊是我已獲得足夠　滿足你的要求　就求你別提及分手
　就我所知　終有日看懂情人方內疚　但是愛不全是佔有　誰會敷我的傷口＊

從來不懂你嗎　為何尚要牽掛　但我不敢問話　未夠膽調查　你似未歸家
能留低一吻嗎　尤其是這十數月不知你在哪　還未曾化
講大話　還是真的無瑕　讓我知可以嗎

Repeat＊

從來不懂你嗎　為何尚要牽掛　但我不敢問話　未夠膽調查　你似未歸家
能留低一吻嗎　尤其是這十數月不知你在哪　還未曾化
講大話　如果真的無瑕　沒法解釋嗎

從頭學習愛人　如何去守我本份　讓你知再會愛下去　這次是我可劫後重生

從前不懂你嗎　為何我覺可怕　但我不敢問話　未夠膽調查　我會否很差
能和好相處嗎　用自信心相信你便不會再害怕　還未明嗎
好情人　無非取得平衡　是我這方法嗎

Scripture Today

正如我經常講，神真是既可愛又可憎...
可憎的是他不會給你打開你的結局
可愛的是他一定會回答你的禱告

今日心情十分起伏，希望神給一些安慰，正值團契活動時有一環節是選經文。我跟神祈禱說，我不選啦，你給我甚麼就是甚麼啦。唉，神果然應允禱告。三節經文給我很大鼓勵。

順服: 悖逆的罪與行邪術的罪相等；頑梗的罪與拜虛神和偶像的罪相同。你既厭棄耶和華的命令，耶和華也厭棄你作王。(撒母耳記上15:23)

寬恕: 倘若這人與那人有嫌隙，總要彼此包容，彼此饒恕；主怎樣饒恕了你們，你們也要怎樣饒恕人。(歌羅西書3:13)

忍耐: 也要堅守我們所承認的指望，不至搖動，因為那應許我們的是信實的。(希伯來書10:23)

神啊...謝謝你...!

Being Honest?

"同事三分親"今日講"坦白"。

人總是希望人人對他坦白。

可是為何人總是在對方坦白時，卻喜愛利用對方對他的坦白，甚至使用對方對他的坦白而傷害對他坦白的人???

"溏心風暴"中的阿歡就是一個很好的例子，連親生阿媽都利用他的坦白，唉...點解?!?!?!

Perseverance

持之以恆

花多少心機和工夫
就會得到多少的回報
是沒有捷徑的

Dear all, Thank you

Last week, during a memorial ceremony of AFC founder Rev. & Mrs. Stephen Knights, I was reminded of this song "Thank you" by Ray Boltz. This reminds me of those who help me and shape me during the past twenty years of my life. They were/are my examples, and their proverbs will forever be in my mind.

To those who are/were in Ottawa, thank you for teaching me while I was hurting you. Thank you for all Sunday school teachers, as that was when my Biblical foundation being laid. Thank you for all choir members, as you are those who give me a hand and lift me up while I was down due to mistakes.

To Rev. Nelson, thank you for being my turning point.

To Raymond, you know how much you mean to me... thank you...!

To all my friends in Toronto, thank you for walking with me when I am in needed.

To Rev. Barclay, thank you for being my teacher/mentor for my seminary years.

Of course, cannot appreciate more for what my parents had given me.

Without all your support, I will not be the Kelvin today.

THANK YOU...!

I dreamed I went to heaven
And you were there with me;
We walked upon the streets of gold
Beside the crystal sea.
We heard the angels singing
Then someone called your name.
We turned and saw a young man running
And he was smiling as he came.

And he said, "Friend you may not know me now."
And then he said, "But wait,
You used to teach my Sunday School
When I was only eight.
And every week you would say a prayer
Before the class would start.
And one day when you said that prayer,
I asked Jesus in my heart."

Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am a life that was changed.
Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am so glad you gave.

Then another man stood before you
And said, "Remember the time
A missionary came to your church
And his pictures made you cry.
You didn't have much money,
But you gave it anyway.
Jesus took the gift you gave
And that's why I'm here today."

Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am a life that was changed.
Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am so glad you gave.

One by one they came
Far as the eye could see.
Each life somehow touched
By your generosity.
Little things that you had done,
Sacrifices made,
Unnoticed on the earth
In heaven, now proclaimed.

And I know up in heaven
You're not supposed to cry
But I am almost sure
There were tears in your eyes.
As Jesus took your hand
And you stood before the Lord.
He said, "My child, look around you.
Great is your reward."

Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am a life that was changed.
Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am so glad you gave.

Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am a life that was changed.
Thank you for giving to the Lord.
I am so glad you gave.

小小的誤差

法政先锋2內裡的一段：人的心理真的很奇怪，只不過是小小誤差，就可顛倒整個世界觀，反轉所有是非黑白甚至殺人放火，他們都會覺得自己沒有錯。

回想這幾天跟不同的人談起基督教時，無論是否基督徒，我們很多時間其實都是因為對神的看法出現小小的誤差，以致對神產生一些不必要的誤解。可以是天然災難，又或是人為變數，我們都可能因為對神的不了解，而在慒然不知的情況下，把所有的事情的責任都負面地歸咎於神的身上。為著這些的誤解，我們有時會讓我們的信心失落，有時會因此不返教會，甚至有時覺得神的存在跟本上不重要，遠離我們應有的信仰，以為自己才是對的，並沒有錯。

神啊，其實我們才是最錯的，求你原諒我們的無知和小信，若孩子有甚麼時候有意無意的把神你"擺上檯"時，求你原諒。